Although it can be difficult to share custody, parents often learn to cooperate. They may even see the best in one another when they view each other as co-parents rather than romantic partners. Parents frequently learn to step up into a more active role when they share parental rights and responsibilities. Unfortunately, some parents cannot handle the stress of parenting alone.
Substance abuse, anger issues, medical challenges and other personal problems could prevent a parent from providing the support, nutrition and stability that their children need to thrive. One parent concerned about their children’s well-being could ask the courts to modify a custody order for their protection.
How can modifications help?
A custody order or parenting plan remains enforceable even when the relationship between parents changes. If one parent feels concerned about the safety of the children while they are with the other, they must ask the courts to change the current allocation of parenting time.
Modifications formally adjust the custody order. Requesting a modification protects a parent from enforcement actions or allegations of intentional non-compliance.
When are modifications possible?
Custody modifications are an option when parents agree on the need to change the terms of a custody order. A contested modification is possible when either parent has evidence of significant changes to family circumstances. Documentation of neglect or abuse, as well as proof of highly unstable circumstances, could alter what a judge believes is in the best interests of the children.
Partnering with a family law attorney can make it easier for people to modify an existing custody order. Reducing parenting time may be the safest option when a parent struggles to fulfill their responsibilities.

