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Top five reasons to seek a divorce

On Behalf of | Oct 17, 2022 | Divorce

Sometimes, marriages are just not meant to last. Although some people in Washington believe they should stay in their marriage for various reasons, there are times when you should just cut your losses and get divorced. Bad marriages can harm you physically and mentally. Consider splitting from your spouse if you are in one of these situations.

Abuse, inability to love and passivity are key issues

Even if you go through marriage counseling, some domestic situations may be too severe to resolve. Repeated patterns of abuse make getting a divorce preferable, with physical abuse at the top of the list. If your mate physically attacks you, and you feel your safety, health and life are constantly threatened, then your spouse has already abandoned the sanctity of marriage.

Just as destructive is emotional abuse. The components of emotional abuse can run the gamut from not speaking to constantly calling your partner names or finding fault with everything they do. Few, if any, marriages can survive severe physical or emotional abuse. Not doing anything about a substance abuse problem is also damaging. If so, it’s time to move on.

If you find your spouse is incapable of loving you, you aren’t imagining it. While this situation may be difficult to comprehend, about 17% of the population has a personality disorder. Finally, if your spouse is just too passive to solve problems, they don’t understand what a marriage partnership is.

Getting the divorce guidance you need

Many people in abusive domestic situations feel entirely helpless, yet it often takes them several attempts to leave the marriage. Those living with a spouse who cannot love or has pathological levels of passivity may also find it difficult to leave. When you finally decide to do so, you should protect your interests, above all.

If you find yourself in one of these situations, you may need continued counseling after initiating divorce proceedings. It’s often difficult to come to terms with when you’ve made a wrong decision regarding a mate. Getting the help you need can help you start a new life.