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Speaking to children about divorce can help them cope

On Behalf of | Dec 30, 2020 | Uncategorized

Getting a divorce can be an extremely difficult process for a couple. It can be very difficult for a couple to realize that their marriage is coming to an end, but it can be even more difficult for the children in the family. Children will soon have to get used to the fact that the entire family will no longer be living together as a complete unit. This can be a very difficult situation for kids to grasp, and many parents dread having the conversation. Having the conversation as soon as possible, however, can help children become acclimated to the idea of divorce.

How can parents help their children deal with divorce?

One of the most important things parents must convey to their children when telling them about the divorce is that it is not the children’s fault. Many children blame themselves for their parents’ divorce, assuming they’re getting divorced because they were “bad.” It’s important that parents let their kids know that the divorce is between the parents and not the children.

Parents can also help their children by spending alone time with them. This can help the kids get used to spending time alone with each parent. Parents can use this time to allow the children to express any fears or issues they may have about child custody and other topics.

Parents also need to make sure that they don’t disparage the other parent, even if one parent is more at “fault.” Putting down the other parent forces the children to pick sides, something they shouldn’t have to do while working out child custody.

Who can parents turn to for advice about their divorces?

Parents may benefit from reaching out to lawyers who have experience figuring out custody issues. These lawyers can help them with issues like how to manage their children during their divorce and how to make their little one’s lives as stress-free as possible during the dissolution of the marriage.